Friday, April 23, 2010

Just when I thought the DBD couldn't get any more DB...

Raye hasn't been feeling well lately so I made a doctor appointment for her yesterday, the only one they had available right smack in the middle of my clase de Espanol but hey, that's what we responsible parents do ~ take our children to the doctors when they are sick. Even if we have to miss work, school, life, whatever to do it. But hey ~ I'm getting off-topic and starting to go down a different rant-road. Anyway ~ we get there and they tell us they can't verify Raye's insurance. Well, that has to be a mistake because she's had insurance through her father (and I use that term VERY loosely) her whole life. So, I ask Raye to call DBD and ask him for the information needed and guess what? DBD tells her that he got FIRED last month and so she doesn't have insurance anymore! You would have thought he would have had the courtesy and the BALLS to call me, the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN, and tell me this before I have my sick child in the doctors office being told she no longer has any insurance coverage!! I think the word "livid" is an understatement to how I am feeling. Even Raye, the "Daddy's Girl" was pissed. So, what happened? She didn't get to see the doctor because I didn't have $320 (three hundred and twenty dollars!) for her visit and they don't accept my insurance and the COWARD refused to answer his phone when I called him after we left. So, I left a nice little "thanks for telling me that my children have no medical insurance before I took my sick daughter to the doctor and she couldn't be seen because her piece-of-shit father didn't have the courtesy to call and let her mother know he lost his job! Guess that means the barely-any child support is stopping too. Thanks for giving me the heads up. I guess I truly am on my own with the kids ~ guess you've finally lost everything now ~ you've hit rock bottom and you still don't think you have a problem. Its a good think my children have one parent who gives a shit". Unbelievable. Just when I thought DBD couldn't be any more of a deadbeat ~ he goes and proves me wrong.

Oh, and btw ~ I must have e.s.p. or something because I had DBD "neutered" 15 years ago after our youngest son was born. Best thing I ever did!!  


The Girl Creative


  1. Thank God he can't reproduce anymore. He needs to be shot though for being such a huge loser.

  2. Hi, I am from New Friend Friday. Sorry to hear that your daughter wasn't able to see the doctor. I hope she feels better soon. And I love your P.S. comment!

  3. I don't know that I would have been able to refrain from going after! That is complete BS!!! What an ass.

  4. hey thanks for stopping by my blog :) I have one of those DBD's... so I understand. it is never ending.. my lil sis has leukemia.. and it gets to be very frustrating to say the least.. i'm your newest follower though :)

  5. Thanks for stopping by my blog! I'm sorry you are having to go through all of this! :( I have a friend in a similar situation (except the roles are reversed, he has a dead beat ex-wife). I hope things improve for ya! I'm adding you to my blog list! :)

    Happy New Friend Friday! I hope you have a good weekend!


  6. Following from The Creative Girl's New Friend Friday.

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  7. Stopping by a bit late from New Friend Friday. I'm following you now! Hope you can stop by and follow me, too. :)

    By the way, I'm starting a NEW BLOG HOP!!! It's called Tuesday Tag-Along, and it premieres tomorrow (actually, the linky opens in less than five minutes)! I hope you'll be there to join in the fun and get some new followers!

  8. It helps DBD in his quest for coward-ship; that he lives 1200 miles away in a different state so he isn't worried about running into me and getting his ass kicked!